Monday, January 14, 2013

Remembering and Recovering from the Holidays (One day at a time)

Welcome to the January 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Recovering from the Holidays This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have written about how their families get back to normal after the holidays are over.
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This year the holidays were a little different for our family. The decorations were up but they were mainly background to everything else going on in our lives. Thanksgiving was a blur (I was only a few days post-partum) and even though I enjoyed preparing for Christmas, I was more focused on adjusting to our newly expanded family and recovering from our second daughter's birth.
Somehow we managed to fit in all the usual holiday goodness (time with family, gingerbread houses, paper snowflakes ) and we had a beautiful Christmas with our little family.

But before I knew it the holidays were over. It was almost as if I'd been participating in the festivities without being entirely aware of them. I was focused on the little things--trying to make each day special for the girls, spending time with family, my post-partum recovery, savoring the days J had home from work. The days flew by. They went so fast I feel like I need to go back and experience them again. 

I was caught by surprise when I realized I should turn off the Christmas music. I'd finally remembered to turn it on.

Instead of packing things up right away it's taken us several weeks. The first week or so after Christmas I kept forgetting the decorations are up. They'd become perfectly blended into the background of our everyday. Part of me keeps thinking it's just not time to take them down. I feel like we have more celebrating to do. There are projects I never got to do with L, little presents that never got delivered, cards that were never sent. 

Slowly the reality that January has arrived is sinking in. I'm just taking it one day at a time--remembering all the special little moments, looking at photographs, finding places for new toys, packing older ones away to be rotated later in the year. J took the tree down last week. Later we took down the decorations and put them all in one room. I waited another day to put them away. Maybe tomorrow I'll take down the Christmas cards hanging on the wall. Before the end of the month I hope to send out New Year's cards since Christmas cards were never completed.

And hopefully sometime in the next few weeks I'll start preparing for Valentine's day.

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Carnival of Natural Parenting -- Hobo Mama and Code Name: MamaVisit Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting this March!
Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:

  • Pinterest Inspiration for Easier Winter Holidays Shannon, writing at Natural Parents Network, shares inspiration for having more relaxed winter holidays from their Handmade Holidays Pinterest board.
  • Seven Recipes for Beans - Post Holiday Cleaning — Destany at They Are All of Me shares her favorite bean recipes that she hopes will help her body recover from overindulging her sweet tooth during the holidays.
  • The Recovery in the Change — Laura at Pug in the Kitchen made changes in her life and attitude throughout 2012 and was pleasantly surprised at how those changes impacted her holiday recovery!
  • Could this question change your life for ever? — To get your new year off on the right footing, Mrs Green of Little Green Blog is challenging us all to love ourselves with commitment and discipline. She asks you to focus on a simple question which might just bring you back in balance...
  • Holiday Recovery — Meegs at A New Day talks about how the holidays can be overwhelming for a toddler, and how she's helping her 3 year old recover.
  • 5 Ways to Detox After the Holidays — Brittany at The Pistachio Project gives a few ways to help you detox and get back on track after the holiday season has passed.
  • 3 Simple Ways to Establishing Rhythm After the Holidays or Any Time — Sheila at A Living Family shares 3 simple ways to reestablish a rhythm of connection and calm in your family after holidays, visitors, travel or any time.
  • Gemstones For Holiday Hangoverss — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama delves into the power of gemstones as an often overlooked means of dealing with the holiday letdown.
  • Getting back to Healthy — Bess at A Warrior Mom talks about the struggle of getting young ones back to eating healthy after several days to weeks of getting more candy and sweets than normal for the holidays and gives some suggestions on how to get them back to eating healthy in the new year.
  • Post Christmas Juice Feast — Sam at Love Parenting explains why she has created a new tradition of juice feasting, and how she includes her toddler when detoxing.
  • The Java Monkey On My Back — Christy at Eco Journey in the Burbs realizes it is time to kick her cup of Joe habit as a first step toward detoxing.
  • Minimalist Holidays — Jorje of Momma Jorje doesn't find much need for recovery after her minimalist version of the holidays.
  • Do something for you — Lauren at Hobo Mama urges you to find a silly and indulgent reward of me-time — and she has hers.
  • do we recover? — Kenna at Million Tiny Things wonders what recovery really means in the context of the tragedies of this past holiday season.
  • 37 Easy Ways to Save Money — Shannon at GrowingSlower is sharing these money-saving tips to help get your budget back on track after the holidays.
  • A Two Year Old's ResolutionsThat Mama Gretchen is putting the holidays behind her with a spin on traditional resolutions — New Year's goals for her two-year-old! Sound crazy? Read on for an explanation!
  • How to Find Balance after the Holidays — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now tells her favorite ways to start a new year with hope and calmness.
  • Fresh Awakening — For Luschka at Diary of a First Child, the new year has coincided with a return to restful nights. With sleep, she's found new directions in life, but while she can't make too many changes to her life right now, she's inspired and excited about the future.
  • Learning to slow down after a busy Festive Season Stoneageparent describes the joys and lows of this year's festive season, as well as her New Year's resolutions.
  • Detoxing' Your Toddler After the Holidays — Does your family suffer side effects from the holidays? Join Christine from African Babies Don't Cry to learn how she detoxed herself and her toddler off the treats and festivities of the season.
  • Scheduling is OK! — Jaye Anne at Wide Awake, Half Asleep explores the possibilities of the — SCHEDULE!!
  • We're Saving their First Christmas for Next Time — Mercedes at Project Procrastinot takes it easy after moving with her husband and new babies to Scotland.
  • A Vacation from the World — Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children retreats with her family at the end of every year in order to recuperate and enjoy one another.
  • On the Road to Recovery — Dionna at Code Name: Mama isn't just recovering from the holidays, she's recovering from a lifestyle.
  • We Never Left the GrindErika Gebhardt compares a typical day pre-holidays and post-holidays.
  • Remembering and Recovering from the Holidays (One day at a time) — Emily at S.A.H.M i AM is recovering from holidays slowly--taking one day at a time--while trying to remember all the sweet moments that passed too quickly.
  • 5 a Day — To get back on track Jennifer at True Confessions of a Real Mommy needed a simple system to help her family learn new values.
  • Holiday Detox & Healing: Bieler Broth — Megan at The Boho Mama shares her secret for a gentle, whole-foods-based post-holiday detox: Bieler Broth!
  • I'm Mama Not Supermom — After a year filled with changes Angela at EarthMamas World has to remind herself that she does not have to be supermom while recovering from the holiday chaos.
This post is also part of Seasonal Celebration Wednesday

8 comments:

  1. Well, that makes total sense, considering! Since becoming an adult, I've thought Christmas passes much too quickly. When I was a kid, it took foreeever to arrive, and now it's just all so speedy. I love it, too, so I always am wanting to draw it out. Ah, well, it's good to enjoy even the quickly passing moments!

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  2. Sounds a little bit like our holidays! My babies were born at the end of September, so I've still been kind of ninnying around also. And putting things away is definitely not my strong suit! At least you did get to spend some quality time with your new family! Congratulations on the new addition.

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  3. It sounds like your house feels as relaxed as possible after a baby - you are right where I was last year :) I, however, do not decorate my house for anything except Christmas. I'm just not that organized ;) Congrats on your little one!!

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  4. I've always wondered at the over-production of the holiday season. It isn't more enjoyable to over-stress ourselves to a frazzle. Personally, I can't stand the clutter of our Yule tree. A few years ago, we started decorating in stages. I find that to be much more enjoyable to me, and everyone else enjoys doing special things on more days.

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  5. With a new baby, I don't blame you on how you feel! We are definitely still recovering from the holidays, too. We were at my brother's house in Montreal for two weeks over the holidays, so it felt weird to take all of our decorations down so soon, when we didn't spend Christmas in our house. I can't believe I already have to start thinking about Valentine's Day, Eek!

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  6. We just took our Christmas tree and decorations down yesterday. The holidays were a blur for us too, having just moved to a new home in December. I have yet to find a place to store the stuff until next year. I can't believe it's already halfway through January! Savor the little moments. They go by so fast.

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  7. It is no wonder with a new baby in the house!! Next year will be better.

    Kathy
    http://gigglingtruckerswife.blogspot.com

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  8. Hi Emily, I can empathise with you here, having had my second daughter close to Christmas, and for me too, it passed by as a bit of a blur:-) Thanks so much for sharing at Wednesday's Seasonal Celebration! Have a good week:-)Rebecca@ Natural Mothers Network x

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